When we genuinely and wholeheartedly serve the needs of others in our unique and special way of giving ourselves, doing what we love, our life takes on much more meaning and becomes more valuable and satisfying, improving the perception we have of ourselves in terms of value, image and esteem. Friends, apply the above to your lives as soon as possible, don't miss out on it any longer. Start little by little and expand it more and more, don't rush and be persistent. Forget about selfishness, we were not born to be the center of our life. To the extent that we move the epicenter of our life and put it at the service of others, we will discover feelings, direction, happiness, satisfaction, joy, peace and many other beautiful things that we have dreamed of.
With the above I do not mean that we should be complacent with people, trying to please them by seeking their acceptance or affection. Complacency is a form of attachment that only shows that there is emptiness in the person who practices it, especially emotional emptiness, most of the time housed in the unconscious. The complacent person suffers greatly, because they never perceive that their efforts are rewarded and they become frustrated and exhausted to a great extent. In addition, the complacent tend not to value and often do not even realize the efforts made by the complacent person. Complacency is a form of attachment that needs to be worked on with continuous exercises of self-awareness, reflection and behavioral therapy.
Making it clear that giving ourselves to others is very different from being accommodating with others, I also want to add that to give ourselves to others, especially to people in need of our talents, we don't need much, we just need to enjoy our talents and what we love and decide to do it, to be intentional. The passion of doing what we like automatically leads us to do it and give it with an extra dose of passion and emotion that will make it unique, valuable and valued. The most impressive thing about giving to others is that everyone always wins, but the one who gives wins more. Gaining self-esteem, self-image, experience and relationships can be the beginning of something very big when you understand the great secret of giving to others. The one who receives, receives time, dedication, enthusiasm, learning and energy; everything that will help him feel a loved and valued person, can be a great new beginning, a spark of hope.
You must realize that I am not saying that giving to others should be a transactional exercise where payment is involved or not. Regardless of whether or not payment exists, we must always give ourselves to others. There is no more beautiful way to live and experience happiness. Even giving ourselves to others through volunteer activities or in the church can also be a very good therapy to rebuild people who have suffered trauma, depression, grief or breakups. Also, giving ourselves to others through volunteering under formal structures such as those of some NGOs like the Red Cross or some well-organized denomination of the Christian Church, can help us strengthen our own leadership because we learn to submit to a higher authority. The best leaders, leaders with humanity, know and practice being under a higher authority.
In short, serving others has countless benefits. The feelings it generates lead to feelings of fulfillment, joy and inner peace, the kind that lasts for long periods of time. Serving and giving ourselves to others is there for everyone, we just have to make the decision. I have always thought that the best things in life do not cost anything, God has them for everyone, this is one of them.
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